You know, as I am getting older, I’m starting to realize more about who I am as a person. I’m accepting all the craziness, and realizing that (when you look at both sides of my family) I really never had a chance to be normal.
Therefore, I am going to put my first installment to the Aleta’s Mini Manual, for those close to me. This way, you’ve had fair warning on 1) how to perk me up, 2) how I am, and 3) my peculiarities.
Aleta’s Mini Manual (first of many installments)
1). How to perk me up.—for when I am sad or just plain having a bad day.
a) Offer to throw something, hurt, or give evil glares at anyone that’s either pissed me off or hurt me.
b) Tell me I’m not a bad person.
c) Make me laugh
d) Tell me I won’t always be alone.
e) For the heck of it, tell me I look pretty.
f) Pass me a drink.
These things pretty much cover all the bases.
2). How I am
a) I’m not good in an actual crisis. If someone is really hurt, or something tragic has happened, I’m probably not the one that can help you. I’ll freak out.
b) I’m prone to being bitchy, anxiety, panic attacks, and smart ass-icism.
c) I hate when people continue to talk to me when it is evident that I’m not listening or just don’t care.
d) I love men that can actually sing. I used to give guys credit for trying, now I just shake my head at them.
e) One thing can piss me off in the beginning of the day and I’ll be mean the rest of the day.
f) I don’t like to drive. Especially in the city. And I have the worst case of road rage…ever.
g) My language is really, really bad. Though I try to control my tongue, it would literally take a muzzle for me to stop.
h) I have no patience.
i) I’m very much a creature of habit.
j) Sometimes I push people away if I think that I’m getting too close to them.
3). My peculiarities
a) I have to check the stove, oven, toaster, and my hair straigtener 4 times (to make sure they are turned off/unplugged) before I will leave my house.
b) I listen to Christmas music year-round.
c) I am “broke-d-ded” (as my mom calls it). I try to find something funny in every sad story that is told to me or in every sad situation. Which can be really bad…and hurt people’s feelings.
d) I won’t watch some of my favorite movies because they are more of a “dramatic” film than a comedy. (once again, I don’t have it in me to handle sad).
e) One of my BIGGEST pet peeves is other people being late.
f) Another Big pet peeve is people that use the same phrases in every conversation. Or use phrases wrong. I want to shake them and be like “NO!”
g) I’m not a fan of people, that I’m not close with, touching me.
h) If I ever hear the 21-gun salute (in movies, shows, or at funerals) I will start crying.
i) I like to watch cartoons.
This is the first installment. Just a few things I’ve learned about myself. There will be more. Be warned :)